Wife Characteristics Shalihah

By Abu Muhammad Abdul Rahman Jibriel

Shalihah woman (wife shalihah) is the Best and semulia-noble title given to a woman beloved of God. Title or that title is not just a name and pride, but he is the fruit of a long struggle in the life of a woman. Reminded the Muslim community, in order to guard against khadra'uddiman, the beautiful woman who grew up in a bad place.

MANY women crave that title, but very little until the goal is missed. Therefore, the long journey that must be taken by a woman to haruskannya via a steep road, winding, rocky, up hill and down the mountain, full of thistles and thorns. Briefly recall the journey of life the leaders of the women experts sur-ga, that is the best of women as the following words of the Prophet.

"The best of women is Maryam bint Imran and best of women is Khadijah bint Khuwailid." (Narrated by Bukhari, Muslim). Of Abu Musa ra. said: Allah's Apostle said: "the perfect man much, but not so for women except Asiya wife of Pharaoh and Mar-yam bint Imran. And Aisha's real virtues of other women like the mainstreaming tsarid (oily dish) for other food. "(Narrated by Bukhari). The Prophet said: "Fati-mah is a woman leader of Paradise". (Narrated by Bukhari)

All the women mentioned in the hadiths above, which was given the title as the best of women of Paradise (Mar-yam, Asiya, Khadija, Aisha and Fatima), there was the women who journey of his life is full of trials and challenge. They suffered much misfortune and disaster reinforcements, both in matters of family, society and the enemies of Allah and His Messenger. But they would not budge from the faith and obedience to Allah.

Do traits and characters are owned in his run into everyday life, so that would hardly survive from all worldly amok, and received a noble title as a woman / wife shalihah? A common way described in the Qur'an, Allah says: |

"The man is a leader for women, because Allah hath sebahagian their (male) on sebahagian another (woman), and because they (men) have spend of their property. Therefore the righteous women, who are obedient to God again to maintain themselves [when her husband was not there, because God has preserved (them). "(Surat An-Nisa '4: 34)

This paragraph is to explain in detail about the particulars trapped women in the life of the household who are under the leadership of men. Mentioned that there are two kinds of women: the shalihah and non shalihah. Then shalihah among other traits are obedient, that is obedient to God Almighty to His Messenger and obedience to the husband. In addition he was welcome to stay at home, to be doing good to their husbands and guard her honor at the time her husband was not home.

Ats-Tsauri and Qata-dah said: Meaning guard her honor when the husband is not home is to keep everything that should be maintained, both with regard to self-respect and treasure. Meanwhile, Ibn Jarir and al-Bayhaqi narrated ha-dits from Abu Hurayrah who said that the Prophet said:

"The best is a charming lady of your heart when you view, when you obey orders, and keep your wealth and preserve his self-respect when you are not home." Then the Prophet. read the paragraph above. (Surat An-Nisa '4: 34).

Sheikh Muhammad Abduh says that what is meant by maintaining self-respect here is to shut down what can be embarrassing when shown or disclosed. That is, keeping everything that specifically sustainably naan with a secret husband and wife, and no su-aminya confide to anyone else except to people who truly believed because wanted to find a solution of household clutter.

In syar'i, which can also be categorized in his case it is imperative conceal everything that relate to the intimate relationship of husband and wife, including in it to tell things that are not obscene. Do not like khadrau'ud-Diman, as is frequently aired television infotainment, indulgence in all rat au-o-war family so disgusted to hear that.

Apatah again when the till to the forms of behavior that they like her as the couple husband and wife are not worth listening to by other than theirs. It can also be understood that the phrase referred to by al-Qur-'an above, is one phrase that has a deep metaphorical meaning: to stamping the hard-hearted woman, but understand it could be the secret by those who take soft.

Women had indeed had such a gentle instincts, where you all can figure burst their hearts just by touching her fingertips only. The heart they have veins that soon Memom-sensitive blood to feed their faces when the stimuli received.

So it is not justified to connect directly hifzhul unseen sentences (keeping the treasure and honor yourself) with bima hafizhallah sentence (as they are God's keeping himself). For such a drastic shift from the narrative of the hidden secrets of self-preservation to the narrative of God so clearly turned a person to think a prolonged about things which are behind the veil-the veil of personal secrets husband and wife. Namely, things hidden and secret, to be transferred to the supervision of Allah Almighty and wajalla.

Respect is given to women through the testimony of God above, are intended to keep them awake from the touch of hands dirty, ignorant eye-view, or gossip, while their husband is not at home, through persuasion, seduction in the form of bills, luxury cars, a beautiful home or a few slices of bread.

Thus, women shalihah is women who keep the treasure and honor him as su-aminya not at home, as Allah has guarded them. That is the nature shalihah to them. For a woman who sha-lihah always will be the supervision of Allah, and piety they have had caused them to become women who maintained the treacherous nature and able to keep his mandate.

Because that is what is meant by Women Shalihah in the above paragraph are those who are always obedient to Allah, His Messenger, her husband and not to perturutkan his passions in his daily life. If the associated meaning of the verse mentioned above appropriate to describe the particulars of the contemporary woman who likes to reveal the secrets of his own household, or other person households (female gossip soap opera) and can not maintain the property and honor of her husband's where-when they not at home is not included in the corridors women shalihah.

Do not like khad-rau'uddiman, as is often aired tv infotai-ment, indulgence in all the nakedness family so disgusted to hear people. If observed by the description above seksa-ma, ma-ka can be concluded that the wife who has a character shalihah as follows:



1. Obey Allah and His Messenger

By his obedience was the biggest asset for him to achieve the highest reward the fruits of science and his faith. That paradise is full of pleasure, he will abide therein for as long as eternity. Allah Most High. said: |

(Laws was called) it is the provisions of God. He who obey Allah and His Messenger, Allah will put it into syurga flowing rivers in it, and they abide therein, and that's a big victory. (Surat An-Nisa ', 4: 13)

Word of God again: "And whoever to obey Allah and His Messenger (Him), they will co-sa-ma with people who had been granted favors by God, namely: the prophets, the shiddiiqiin, people who die martyrs, and righteous people. And that's their best friend. "(Surat An-Nisa ', 4: 69)

Abu Hurairah ra said, her words of the Holy Prophet: "All of my ummah will enter Paradise except a reluctant (unwilling). Pa-ra Companions asked: Who was it who are reluctant to O Messenger of Allah? He replied: Those who obey me (follow Sunnahku), he shall enter Paradise, and whoever mendurhakaiku, then he is reluctant to go to heaven. "(Bukhari)

Then so is a woman or a wife, she will go to heaven with God and obey His Messenger with a true-true.



2. Abiding by Husband

Obedience to the su-aminya is the door of salvation to him un-tuk achieve the eternal pleasure and eternal in heaven. Prophet said:

"If a wife has prayed five times a day, and shaum (fasting) in Ramadan, and to keep his cock from the unlawful and obedient to her husband, then it will be welcome to: go to heaven than any door you like." (Narrated by Ahmad)

It was narrated from Umm Salamah, bahwasa his asthma came to the Prophet and said: Actually I am a messenger of Muslim women, all they say and think as I am O Messenger of God was, in fact God has sent to men and women, we has been faithful to you and follow you, (but) ka-mi women feel restricted and shackled. Though we were waiting for their homes, where to channel their passion, we were containing their children, they were exceeded by pray, watch bodies and strive in the path of Allah.

And when they are out of the jihad, we who guard their treasure and we were her children melihara them, so if we do not get the reward they O Messenger of Allah? Then the air-to-the palinglah Prophet his companions and asked: Did you already hear the ka-best question was from a woman about his religion? They replied: Yes, By Allah, O Messenger of Allah, then he said: Get thee O Asthma and Tell the women who sent you that one of your good service to her husband, asking keridhaannya and obey his will equal the (reward) charity's men men that you mentioned. Then went with a bertahlil Asthma and gem-biranya bertakbir because of what the Prophet said to him. (Al Istii'aab, Ibn 'Abd al-Bar)

From Ibn Abbas he said, representatives of women said: "O Messenger of Allah, I am the representative of the women to meet you. The real jihad is only prescribed for men only, if they win their reward, and if they are killed, then they always live and be on the side of their Lord Rizki. While our class of women performing their duties (submissive) to them, then is there any part of who we are? So the Prophet replied, Sam-paikanlah to anyone of the women who eng-you see, that obedience to the husband and recognize the rights of husband is such a match, and how few of you are able to carry it. "(HR al-Bazzar)


3. Serving Husband

Some wives are very obedient to her husband, but less good at serving her husband with the best of it. So if obedient to her husband and serve him clever, it the glory it is an individual who raised the degree of his reach safety in the world and the hereafter.

Umm Salamah ra said, the Prophet said: "Every wife who died blessed by her husband, then he will enter Paradise." (Narrated by at-Tirmidhi and Ibn Majah).

From Abdullah ibn Abi Aufa he said, Mu'adh were sent to Yemen or the Sham and she saw people bowing to the magnifying-Christians can magnifying and to the priests. Then he said to himself, the Prophet is more worthy to be glorified (than they). So when he came to the Prophet he said: O Messenger of Allah, verily I see those Christians can Bers-shape to a magnifying-magnifying and to the priests, and I said in my heart that thou art indeed more worthy of exalted (rather than them) and then he said: If I may be ordered someone bowing to someone, then will I tell you straight-guh wife prostrate to her husband and a wife has not said to be fulfilling his duty to Allah so fulfill the wajibannya against husband entirely, so if- his (her husband) requires it on the vehicle, he must not really turned him down. (Ahmad)

4. Keeping Self Respect

The fourth characteristic is what is the key to keshalihan a wife who is under the supervision of her husband's deeds. The man who has a wife with a ka-rakteristik like this means the property has the best savings.

From Abu Umaamah ra, from the Prophet he had the words: "Nothing is most beneficial for a person (male) believers as already devoted to God than having a wife who shalihah, that is if he in-command he obeyed, if he was thought to please, and if he rotated his remains were made good, and if he abandoned (her husband) she kept her husband in terms of herself and her husband's property. "(Reported by Ibn Majah)

From Ibn `Abbas the Prophet said:" There were four cases who have meant good things in the world and the hereafter, which is a grateful heart, which is always verbal remembrance, the patient's body when overwritten reinforcements disaster (disaster) and the wife who did not plunge her husband, and destroy property. "(HR Thabrani with isnad jayyid).

Best woman there was a woman (wife) that if you look at him encouraging you, if you told her she had to obey, and if you go he also maintains itself and maintain your wealth. (Reported by Abu Dawud. Degree of hadith by al-Hakim declared it saheeh).

May the sisters were able to have these characters so melayak him the promised reward of Allah. They became par-tner in the struggle sabilillah fi, and a loyal companion dikala joys and sorrows with her husband she loved. Amien Yes Rabbal Alamin.



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